my sister…love?
How can you call this love? When God doesn’t give His blessing so?
How are you deluded?
Have you not seen in the Glorious Recitation…”lower your gaze”
Oh my beloved child, oh my beloved sister, my heart is breaking for you.
Believe…there is so much , so so much on life than satisfying your immediate passions.
Love, oh my sister, love, between a man and woman is a sacred, pure gift that Allah gives to those who are tied in legal union. Call me old fashion, and yet to me such labels are meaningless…for such values are values. These values are full of wisdom and baraka.
Believe you me..happiness, and sorrow experienced by by man and wife, in a house that God grants his redha. What peace! and in unrest, peace.
But I see you emptying your life in something meaningless, creating meaning in air. Sometimes I think, surely, you are not serious.
Find Him my sister. Find Him.
He is there. He waits for you patiently. Why neglect the Beloved.
Prefer you the creature over the creator. Prefer you the companion to your hurt?
When His door is wide open, full of rahma…my sister run to Him. My sister have hope. Humbly cry your forgiveness. Hand your precious heart to the One who created it and the One who knows best how to take care of it.
It does not matter if you are in pieces…you don’t have to be perfect to go to Him.
Just Go.
My sister…I hope your heart will be filled with LOVE. With TRUE LOVE. HIS LOVE. HIS LIGHT..and this is happiness. True happiness.
My sister I want so badly that you find love and peace in Him.
Forgive my harsh words, but I sincerely desire good for you.
nurulhazlin said,
July 30, 2009 at 4:19 pm
Salam ya mujahiddah =)
i accidentally came across your blog while surfing the internet. it must be Allah’s blessing for me to find such blog full of solace advices..alhamdulillah, praise be upon Him.
Of all your posts that i’ve read, this post is the one that touched me deeply. being a human, i cant help but to feel the attraction of another human being. im embarrased to admit this, but yes, its the truth.
reading your words line by line, i felt so ashamed of myself and unbearably guilty and ashame towards Allah. “He is there. He waits for you patiently. Why neglect the Beloved.”..”It does not matter if you are in pieces…you don’t have to be perfect to go to Him.” -When i read this, i kept asking myself : Allah has given me so much, He knows me inside out, He cares for me, He was always there for me, His love is beyond compare. but why why WHY still i’m not satisfied? why do i keep on looking for something else? why do i only look for Him in time of hardships?? Subhanallah..just how oblivious i’ve been towards His Love! thank you so much for reminding me.
Ya mujahiddah,
I would like to have your permission to publish this post in my university’s monthly circulation so that your message can touch other muslims too. your blog’s url will be included and the credits will be given to you. or if you’re uncomfortable with the idea of displaying the url, you can tell me what you’ll want to put instead.
i hope you are willing to give the permission because i would really love for these advises to reach a larger group of muslims. may Allah bless you =)